From Physical Beauty to Spiritual
Physical beauty can exert such an intense pull on us (men), because we are creatures of sense. That impact can be very immediate and powerful. Seeing a very beautiful woman…
Unusually Thoughtful Comments on Marital Sexuality
As I have mentioned elsewhere on this website, I think the quality of reflection on marital lovemaking on websites today is generally pretty poor. (Moreover, there is not a lot…
The Other Side of Older Sex
I recently posted on the benefits and delights of "older sex." For example, my wife can stimulate me manually for a much longer time now than when I was young…
Sex in Old Age
A typical web discussion of sex in old age these days either trumpets how great it is, and how there need be no fall off from sex earlier in life,…
How Long Should Sex Last?
For checking how long your lovemaking lasts? There are many discussions on the internet, and some discussions by scientists and sexologists, about how long sex should last. (This is especially…
The Sexual Urge: Need or Gift?
It is natural for a man to be attracted to, drawn into, sexual activity by the prospect of the pleasure he will attain in it: we are naturally made to…
Sexual Differences: Men, Women, and Sexual Desire
Of all the features of sexuality that dominate day-to-day married life, one of the most important is a sort of mismatch in sexual desire between most men and women. As…
Lying with the Body
Finding echoes of the “Theology of the Body” in an unexpected place: the notion that "lying with the body is not always easy -- that the sexual activity of the…
How Unique We Are
My wife and I were watching a tv show tonight, in which one woman takes the place of another who has just died. The imposter goes to the dead girl's…
Welcome to these reflections on married lovemaking!
You can find pages and pages on the internet about sex, but it's so difficult to find sites that ask a lot of the really interesting, and really difficult,…