Marital Intercourse and Orgasm
There are many discussions online about the relation between marital intercourse and orgasm. Many of them suggest that the connection is weak, and that orgasm is achieved better and more…
A Wife’s Orgasms
As I have written here (like so many others), a husband has an obligation to try to ensure that his wife achieves the ordinary full satisfaction of the marital act…
Trial and error (and success) is better
Some married men (and couples) think that it is useful to read sex manuals or watch pornography because it is part of their "sex education" -- they will be better…
What Men Want in Sex?
Well, a title like "what men want in sex" is, to some extent, a come-on. I don't think anyone can say what "men" want in sex, despite many efforts to…
My Generous Wife!
One theme in this website’s musings has been the sexual differences between men and women, with husbands typically wanting to have relations more often than wives. This can lead to…
Self-Gift or Self-Centered?
One problem that arises from differences between the sexes regarding the frequency of marital relations is this: the tension regarding how often to make love can exacerbate the tendency of…